I'm Daniela. I'm a mother, I train, I juggle everything life throws at me — and I show up completely for yours. Warm enough to hold the pain. Direct enough to name it.
"They leave looking like something finally got said."
I raise my children. I work full time. I train. I juggle everything — and I still show up completely for my clients. I'm not studying relationships from the outside. I've lived the inside of one that left me feeling unseen, unvalidated, and profoundly alone.
That experience is what brought me to this work. I know what it feels like when someone you love can't meet you. And I know exactly what it costs.
So when I sit with a couple, I'm not neutral. I'm human. And I will say the thing nobody else will say — with warmth, with care, and without flinching.
I work with couples at every stage. And with individuals who are tired of repeating the same patterns in different relationships.
Something has broken — trust, connection, the sense that you're on the same team. You're not sure you can come back. But you're not ready to give up yet.
You're okay. But you know you're capable of so much more — more aliveness, more depth, more of each other. You want it back properly, not just on good days.
Same feelings, different person. You're done repeating the pattern. You want to understand your own relational blueprint — and actually change it.
A lot of couples who find their way to me are neurodivergent — ADHD, autistic, or both. I don't think that's a coincidence.
I get it from the inside. I know what it's like when your nervous system runs the relationship before your words get a chance. When "absent" doesn't mean they don't love you. When "too much" doesn't mean broken.
I won't pathologise how you're wired. I'll help you both understand it, name it, and build something that actually works for the two of you.
Not a script. Not a formula. Just three honest things that happen in every session.
The thing you both feel but nobody's saying — I'll say it. Not to shock you. Because you can't change what you can't see. And most couples can feel the truth before they can speak it.
You didn't fall into this dynamic. You built it together — unconsciously, understandably. I look at what's between you, not just what's wrong with you. Then we dismantle it together.
Every session moves between depth and practice. You'll understand the why — and leave knowing what to do differently. Not just insight. Actual tools for your actual life.
Sometimes the deepest shifts happen when you step entirely out of your everyday life. My couples retreat is an intimate weekend — small group, real work, beautiful setting.
No scripts. No performances. Just two days of honest, guided, properly held space for you and your relationship.
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